There's nothing better than hearing the juice straight from the source! Cherry was lucky enough to have a heart to heart with Pilar Sanders and Pilar was open about everything!
Read on to see what Pilar has to say about her divorce & Deion.
When it’s all said and done, what do you want from the divorce?
PS: Freedom. I just want to live my life with my babies, and do everything they’ve always wanted to do. I teach no limits, I teach them to dream, I teach them to live life and have fun. To not live in a bubble where they have to feel they have to act a certain way or be a certain way. I want them to experience different cultures, to appreciate the beauty God created in different cultures, different lands, different foods, different languages. All of that. My oldest son is very much into music production. You might hear the music right now. He’s creating beats from tracks. He’s like a little genius; he picks up on anything and everything just immediately. He’s into skateboarding and plays the trumpet and piano. My other son does the piano and wants to do the trumpet, and sports. That’s something that comes very natural for all of them, including my daughter. The athletics are there. They’re very bright. They speak Spanish, they want to learn other languages. I just want them to be able to live a full rich life, and rich in all of its grandiose.
I had a t-shirt line called ‘Rich Girls’. It wasn’t about the dollar sign, it was about rich in knowledge, rich in life, you know. Not lacking anything, not broken, being full of everything. Being full of life, full of energy, full of love, and that’s what I teach them. Even throughout this process, as hard as it’s been, you can’t hold stuff in. You can’t hold bitterness in ’cause it will eat you up. So just moving, experiencing, whatever it is. Good, bad, hurt, pain, joy, happiness, experience it to the fullest, and then keep going. I know under my tutelage, they’ve been able to move like that. Away from me, it’s very hard for them ’cause I nursed all three for 13 months. We have a bond that’s not to be broken.
As far as child support goes, you supposedly were getting $10,500 per month. Were you actually getting child support from him?
PS: I was never, ever, ever once paid child support, at all. Never once. And I’ve seen his statement saying “and I have the canceled checks to prove it,” but he never showed it, now did he? He never showed you one of his canceled checks of child support that he’s paid, did he? Absolutely not, and he won’t because he hasn’t.
You were charged with attacking him in that situation. What’s happened so far with that case?
PS: We’re still in the middle of it. Wrongfully labeled as attacking him mind you. Collin County, our county’s law states that if anyone is called to a home on domestic violence, that automatically, no matter who calls, the man is taken out of the house, period. No questions, no whatever, the man is just taken out of that house. Now if there’s a sign of blood or a sign of injury on anyone, including the woman, then the man is taken and removed from the home for 24 hours. This is a county and state law. When the police arrived to my home, they saw blood all over me, all over our floor, they saw blood and matter, just meat hanging from my hand. They removed me, they forced myself and my friend out of the home. That was wrong right there. So on so many counts, the police didn’t follow what they were suppose to do, but it was all planned. They had been there earlier that day, talked about it. I mean there is a tape where you can hear Deion telling the police these things.
It doesn't end there, read the full interview on Cherry On Top.
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